Sunday, January 2, 2011

What is Christmas, anyway?

The Blog is back with no guarantees.  I simply ask that you check back now and again,  Zann

Is it possible that Christmas has become little more than an all out campaign with two candidates: one seeking your cash or credit card, while the other your heart and soul?


The ultimate success of any campaign hinges on message and money.

Forget Campaign Finance Reform, the McCain-Feingold “soft money bill, or Public Campaign.org. There is no question as to who has the “my cup runneth over” coffers. Candidate#1, the Retail America Party’s prospect for a golden future, wins easily. The platform consists of one plank: buy, buy, and buy. The slogans are loud, clear and pervasive: “it will help the economy,” “you will feel good,” “you deserve it,” and my favorite, “save some money, live better.”

A well-funded campaign can accomplish remarkable objectives. Pray that the Force will be with us, should this team actually ever decide to run a candidate for political office.

As to Candidate #2, the campaign funds are almost nonexistent and the message is a hard sell at best. This guy’s speech writers must have gotten their training at the five and dime on the corner of Main and Bumpkin Streets. Every year he enters the race a day late and more than a dollar short proclaiming a platform of sacrifice, delayed gratification, and good will toward others. It is no wonder the polls show the opposition with a huge lead!

Nonetheless, and perhaps to no one’s surprise, there is a cadre of supporters in this latter camp possessing an almost maniacal determination to spread the word once again. And what is that word, you ask? It is none other than the old adage professing that Christmas is about much more than getting stuff.

Anecdotal lessons are pulled from the cobweb-laden archives of individual and collective memories then voiced, illustrated, and exampled to all whose hearts, and minds are even vaguely receptive. Stories of hardship, sacrifice and good deeds abound.

Be aware that Candidate #1’s organizers are proficient at message delivery and are not reluctant to using the milk of human kindness to push innocents through the checkout lines with bundles of purchases.

A case in point is one retailer who produces made-for-TV movies. The idyllic picture of the family sharing the evening together with popcorn and pizza while basking in the heart warming lessons depicted on the screen is rivaled only by the number of advertisements for products that must be purchased in order to live a better life.

Which candidate will win your support?

Look for the message behind the message and more importantly, as a very sage friend once advised me on the question of evaluating advice or proposals, examine the agenda of the presenter.

I made my choice a few years ago. If you find yourself the slightest bit interested, stay tuned for thoughts on the world’s greatest gift to both give and receive.

Until next time, be well.

Sunday, July 4, 2010

Consider "Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness"

Many nations celebrate an “Independence Day” but there is only one“4th of July,” a phrase recognized throughout most of the world as the day, centuries ago, that a rabble rousing group of upstarts laid down an ultimatum to the ever- powerful Mother country.


Was it smart, well planned or without controversy? No, no and no. Those debating the issue were caught up in personal agendas and many of those who perceived themselves as patriotic leaders were thought by others to be reckless and ill-advised troublemakers.

Maybe it is the age old ignorance is bliss thing because the odds of colonists winning the fight against England were not even close. Ponder for a moment the situation in 1776. The Colonies were a collection of independent and disjointed governmental entities divided in their loyalties and their thinking. No military force existed except that clothed and funded by England. The rebels were undereducated, underfunded, poorly trained and disorganized; England was all that they were not.

The outcome of this rash and irresponsible conspiracy is well known, applauded, and emulated. But what if things had gone differently?

Would we have continued the fight as insurgents? Surely as the nation grew there would have evolved some type of provisional government, perhaps even a peaceful passing of power.

With a mature and seasoned government in power, it is possible that our greatest mistakes as a nation could have been avoided or at least lessened in degree. But, as fate would have it, victory did fall to the colonists and the 4th of July is a day of great celebration, festivity and reflection. But a word to the wise, merriment without memorial tends to produce a mentality of complacency and entitlement.

Historically, not every citizen in America received their independence papers on July 4th, 1776 or when the band played The World Turned Upside Down at Yorktown in 1781. Among others, children, women, blacks and Native Americans would continue to struggle under the yoke of involuntary servitude, economic deprivations and the denial of civil and legal rights as citizens of a country created in the name of freedom and self-determination.

• Slavery was abolished in 1865 (13th Amendment)

• African Americans gained constitutional citizenship in 1868 (14th Amendment)

• African American men gained the constitutional right to vote in 1870 (15th Amendment)

• Women receive the right to vote in 1920 (19th Amendment)

• Labor Laws protecting children were Federally enacted in 1938 (Fair Labor Standards Act)

• Native Americans are granted U.S. citizenship in 1924 ending their exclusion from rights under the 14th Amendment as certain indigenous peoples. (The Citizenship Act of 1924)

Regardless of how long it has taken or what remains to be accomplished, we are a nation of people who hold in high esteem

“these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.”

Let us celebrate that!

Until next time, be well.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Technology: Friend or Foe?

My weekend was delightful, albeit a battle of priorities.


Modern technology, touted to make our lives simpler and less stressful through electronics, is a double-edged sword, and at least in my household, a mixed blessing. A balanced existence comprised of high-tech gadgets, human interaction and simple machines requires dedication and patience.

Anyway, the best part of my weekend began on Saturday as I arrived at my daughter’s house with a pint of freshly picked strawberries for each of the four grandchildren. There is no substitute for bribery and strawberries win the day every time.

Lucky for me, Marley, the oldest granddaughter, had finished her chores and was permitted to spend the day and the night at the farm with me. On Sunday, I would exchange her for my only grandson and a trip to the movies.

They say confession is good for the soul and here is mine: I am an email addict, checking it multiple times throughout the day. I have no idea if it was caused by Friday night’s storm or some elfin –like creature that lives behind the thing called a firewall, but alas, connecting to the Internet was not happening!

His or her royal Googleness allowed me on early Saturday morning, but no such luck when I got back home. Of course, all plans were put on hold while the problem was solved. To my horror, the realization struck hard: I was obsessed. The ominous pods that one did not dare sleep beside in the “Body Snatchers” had transformed into a laptop and were taking over the world, one crazed human at a time. Enough! I shut it down.

Marley and I set off for a road trip in search of unfinished furniture, unknown bargains, yard sale treasures and special plants for the front of the house. It has been three long years, since I began a landscaping project off the front porch. There was nothing there but monkey grass and I wanted color, fragrance and the birds and bees. Thwarted by a severe lack of funds, the three years had been utilized well to research the options.

After more than a few delightful hours of treasure hunting, we returned home with a few trinkets, supper, four beautiful plants and happy spirits. Marley headed for the pool and I, for the shovel.

I could have worked well into the night, but having my granddaughter nearby reminded me of such things as eating and sleeping, and so we did.

The first half of Sunday was spent sharing with Marley the responsibilities of caring and nurturing the well being of the place we call home. We had a fine breakfast, strolled through the garden admiring the plants and vegetables, played with the dogs, sprayed for weeds, chatted with visiting friends and finished planting the new acquisitions.

It was time for Marley to go home and for her brother and me to head for an afternoon at the movies.

The Internet problem? It got fixed on Monday morning.

Until next time, be well.

Summers without AC

Though summer does not officially arrive until June 21 and recently we have had a few bizarre cold snaps, it is time to get the house ready for the oncoming Virginia summer season.


For many of you, it is simply a matter of switching the thermostat from “heat” to “cool,” but at the Nelson household things are a bit less modern.

My first child did not tolerate the heat well and when she suffered, we all suffered! On a particularly hot and humid day, she began to fuss and fume very early and within hours a large window unit was installed.

In time, she acclimated and the window unit was removed, never to return.

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The “storms” have been pushed up and the “screens” pulled down. This annual early summer practice contributes to a healthier environment and just as importantly, to my pocket book.

There is no mechanical AC here at the farm-just nature’s own. Except for perhaps one week out of the entire summer, it is a comfortable climate.

Frequently, guests comment on the cool temperatures in the house and marvel that it is not the result of conditioned air. My recipe for keeping cool on a hot Virginia day isn’t rocket science, but it may give you some ideas of your own.

It helps if someone 30 to 40 years ago planted trees that now shade the house and capture the breezes. If you are building, think twice before clear cutting the lot!

Porches: big and lots of them. It is like adding several rooms to the house without the large square footage expense of climate controlled space. They capture breezes, shade the house, protect from winter weather and provide a lovely place to enjoy that first cup of coffee or a summer evening.

My cat, Hank, is a huge fan of porches; daily, I open the screen on a window leading to the front porch, and he can come and go at his own discretion. I should tell you that I had to rearrange the porch furniture to stop Scout, the Jack Russell, from using that same mechanism to get in the house, whenever she thought it necessary.

Draw the curtains during the day to keep out the heat and open everything at night to let in the cooler air.

Fans are OK and use very little electrical current; the ceiling fans simply keep the air moving, but a box fan placed in a bedroom window may send you scrambling for a light cover during the night.

And during that one week out of the summer when the heat is stifling and there is not a breeze to be found, consider the following:

• Before bed, reduce your body temperature with a dunk in the pool or creek or consider a serious dowsing with the garden hose.

• Put two or more fans in your bedroom.

• Sleep outside.

• Stay with a friend

• Suck it up and remember how you hated the 15 degree weather last winter.

Until next time, be well.

Spring is on the Way

Note to friends: Obviously Spring has come and almost gone, but thought you might enjoy the missive anyway.  Sorry, my blogs come in fits and spurts.  :)

Mother Nature has redeemed herself with the glorious temperatures and expansive blue sky, fulfilling the seasonal expectation that spring is waiting around the corner.


The vigilant voice of caution whispering constant admonishments of the dangers that lie in hope and fruitful expectation was for once silent. Tentatively, I stepped onto the dead grass of the lawn, now pleasingly absent from its winter coat of snow and proclaimed, “Yes, winter is over!”

It was time to don the gloves and show the wintry world of dark, heatless days, slippery footing, spoiled food and agitated attitudes that I was better than that; with the assistance of spring, I rise to survive.

Even the tractor was back in the game, once my son-in-law blew the debris from the fuel lines, that is. Don’t you just love the merits of skilled know how? Finally, the scraper blade was attached, and I was ready to tackle the road.

It is a little like washing your hair before going to the salon or cleaning and straightening the house before the cleaning service appears. The road had to be prepared before the gravel trucks arrived. Some of the stone was salvaged and all the ruts, bumps, and holes were smoothed beyond recognition. I was even able to rebuild the crown, well, somewhat.

The road was ready and the gravel company promised they could get the job done before the predicted monsoon commenced. As I write, I am waiting for the last load and occasionally walk to the front door to admire the improvements. But, wait, there is more.

The onset of spring brings a very busy part of the year, on the farm, around the house, in the classroom or in the office. With a high level of activity comes the inevitable gremlin known far and wide as STRESS.

We just cannot escape all of it; like a parasite, it thrives on a host body. Some use eradicators and others simply get sucked dry. My solution is diversity; I close the computer, hang up the phone and hit the dirt, literally.

No master gardener by any stretch of the imagination, but I find it extremely therapeutic. In a 24 hour period, the rose bushes were thoroughly pruned- they will either be brilliant or succumb to sudden death syndrome- and the yard was relieved of several truck loads of limbs.

The flower beds were next and the task was to rake away the dead foliage from the last season. Once again, I was reminded of my failure to do the desired separating and transplanting that I always plan to do in the fall. As I pulled last year’s lifeless growth from the plants, I thought, maybe, it was not too late.

But, then, I saw it, the most remarkable discovery of the day. Nestled just beneath rotting debris of 2009 was the new growth and promise for my 2010 garden. My day was complete.



Until next time, be well.

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Ah, Spring!

Mother Nature has redeemed herself with the glorious temperatures and expansive blue sky, filling all with a breath of life left that indeed the eternal promise of spring is right around the corner.

The vigilant voice of caution whispering constant admonishments of the dangers that lie in hope and fruitful expectation was for once silent. Tentatively, I stepped onto the dead grass of the lawn, now pleasingly absent of its winter coat of snow and proclaimed, “Yes, winter is over!”

It was time to don the gloves and show the wintry world of dark, heatless days, slippery footing, spoiled food and agitated attitudes that I was better than that; with the assistance of spring, I rise to survive.

Even the tractor was back in the game, once my son-in-law blew the debris from the fuel lines, that is. Don’t you just love the merits of skilled know how? Finally, the scraper blade was attached, and I was ready to tackle the road.

It is a little like washing your hair before going to the salon or cleaning and straightening the house before the cleaning service appears. The road had to be prepared before the gravel trucks arrived. Some of the stone was salvaged and all the ruts, bumps, and holes were smoothed beyond recognition. I was even able to rebuild the crown, well, somewhat.

The road was ready and the gravel company promised they could get the job done before the predicted monsoon commenced. As I write, I am waiting for the last load and occasionally walk to the front door to admire the improvements. But, wait, there is more.

The onset of spring brings a very busy part of the year, on the farm, around the house, in the classroom or in the office. With a high level of activity comes the inevitable gremlin known far and wide as STRESS.

We just cannot escape all of it; like a parasite, it thrives on a host body. Some use eradicators and others simply get sucked dry. My solution is diversity; I close the computer, hang up the phone and hit the dirt, literally.

No master gardener by any stretch of the imagination, but I find it extremely therapeutic. In a 24 hour period, the rose bushes were thoroughly pruned- they will either be brilliant or succumb to sudden death syndrome and the yard was relieved of several truck loads of limbs.

The flower beds were next and the task was to rake away the dead foliage from the last season. Once again, I was reminded of my failure to do the desired separating and transplanting that I always plan to do in the fall. As I pulled last year’s lifeless growth from the plants, I thought, maybe, it was not too late.

But, then, I saw it, the most remarkable discovery of the day. Nestled just beneath rotting debris of 2009 was the new growth and promise for my 2010 garden. My day was complete.

Until next time, be well.

Monday, March 1, 2010

Cheap fun!

Not wanting to be accused of a “do as I say, not as I do” philosophy, I recently tried out some cheap inexpensive fun on my grandson Jordan. Gee, I hope he doesn’t get the idea that he is Mema’s guinea pig; then again, maybe that might not be all bad.


Life on the farm is never dull and the work is never done. Constant demands to nurture land and livestock have no regard for 40 hour work weeks, overtime, sick leave or vacations. For those that make the choice, it becomes a way of life, turning chores into adventures and including the entire family.

Clearing and maintaining creeks was an annual task and always meant discovery for those observant ones. Heaven forbid that we would stop to look, other than for self-protection, while burning brush or whacking weeds. The adventure was an anticipated delight at the end of the day. I wondered if today’s children were so different.

While I set about clearing the front creek, fond memories of mystery and delight flooded my thoughts. Years of working away from the farm produced a stream now overgrown with Olive bushes-unfortunately nothing edible- and choked with marsh-type grasses. The water flows ever so slowly and remains hidden from sight.

Not nearly as fit as in my youth, I am happy to use modern machinery to tackle such a task. A tractor, bush hog, bucket and chain were the tools of choice.

There are several pleasing attributes to the invasive Olive bush and the one I have become most fond of is its shallow roots. A chain hooked round the base of the bush and a tractor in low gear makes for fantastic results.

Once the bushes are removed and piled for burning, the mower is backed in where the banks are not too steep. For those hard to get to places, I will have to go back with a weed eater.

The final step in the operation is to open the creek by pushing the mud around or pulling it out with the bucket. Voila! The water now flows freely and the creek is open for playtime.

A couple of things I neglected to mention, the mud is really stinky, slimy and possesses an incredible sucking capacity. Also, from my perch atop the tractor, I could see I had disturb a sleeping snapper, several frogs and the treasure of all who love the creek, the prehistoric looking species called a crawdad.

Was my love of chasing critters in the gooey mud on a hot afternoon prehistoric as well? Time would soon tell.

Jordan arrived at the farm about 5PM to find me on the tractor still pulling bushes and I was oh so ready to quit for the day. True to the daily plan of playing before settling in to homework, I suggested he change into his farm clothes and meet me at the other end of the creek. Having enticed him with tales of turtles, frogs and crawdads, he was cautiously intrigued returning promptly in ragged shorts and no shoes.

Plunging in with little hesitation, he was quickly up to his knees in soupy gray mud. He mentioned frequently that he hoped he wasn’t stepping on something that would bite him. Despite his lingering apprehension, the search for crawdads commenced with fervor.

A teeny baby, a medium sized specimen and then he found the granddaddy. Huge for a native, this fellow or girl (we couldn’t tell, that’s a follow up for science class) was about 4 inches long with sizeable pincers. After careful examination and showing it off to anyone we could find, it was returned to the same spot where retrieved.

Frogs were plentiful and those little black beetle like bugs we called speedboats were bombed always unsuccessfully. It was finally time to find the turtle.

I had seen it in the same area on two other occasions. Jordan didn’t believe it was there declaring it had crawled on to the pond. I think maybe he hoped it wasn’t nearby, but he was genuinely pleased to be the first one to spot it. The turtle was underwater with its head against a rock at the bottom of a tiny waterfall. You could tell by the size of its tail that it was very, very big.

Reluctantly, we headed to the house to clean up. I started supper while the almost-13 year old tackled his homework. The test was over; I was pleased with the findings. The creek would see us again.

Until next time, be well.